# How to Make a Rude Perso... ![rw-book-cover](https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/1646769521020256256/niJ33lfA.jpg) ## Metadata - Author: [[@Inspirationwiz on Twitter]] - Full Title: How to Make a Rude Perso... - Category: #tweets - URL: https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367205061448015 ## Highlights - How To Make A Rude Person Look Stupid For Insulting You: *Destroy with Charismatic Responses* (say this to make them regret it) Check Thread 👇🏻 ![](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/GRGBZPtbEAUELZR.jpg) ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367205061448015)) - We'll start with some classic Destroy Comebacks, these are great for winning over the audience & embarrassing the person who insulted you. Then we'll cover some friendlier and more charismatic responses so you can appear cool and confident without making enemies... ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367208542720096)) - 1. The High Status Reframe Rather than responding to the insult you respond that the person insulting you simply isn't important enough to matter. The classic example of this is from MAD MEN – when ginsburg is mad at don draper for not using his idea 👇🏻 <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367234979418114/pu/pl/ebVwxkCBs2VjMx0L.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367234979418114/pu/vid/avc1/320x568/CV24VmT9573xD2s1.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367234979418114/pu/vid/avc1/480x854/ArA38XmDMdcDHXpF.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367277144756688)) - You may think this only works in fiction but in this video you'll see it's just as effective in real life. The ultimate high status reframe is that you haven't even bothered to remember someone. Jeremy literally never recovered from this 👇🏻 <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367293875834880/pu/pl/OtD1twWfy1j7wZRP.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367293875834880/pu/vid/avc1/320x568/DWo_vEN4FNvMgyY8.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367293875834880/pu/vid/avc1/480x852/JhCEDo6wHt-of0Tb.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367293875834880/pu/vid/avc1/720x1280/1Rf5tHzx7qqualZv.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367340587798727)) - Most people would make the mistake of accepting the frame of jeremy's insult they try to debate who hits harder..... but when you use a high status reframe you completely dismantle an insult without even having to address it. ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367345251864830)) - 2. Accept The Insult And Use It Against Them Classic destroy comeback that humiliates the other person so they regret insulting you and same as the first one the key is don't try disputing the insult instead “Accept The Insult And Use It Against Them” ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367348980662418)) - where someone tries to insult kumail Nanjiani: Insult: Is Kumail Nanjiani D**K multiple colors? Kumail: Yes, every shade of your mom's lipstick. Brutal 🔥 <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367361530007556/pu/pl/zoIS_wwlm4IKrPrf.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367361530007556/pu/vid/avc1/320x568/EV40COzBEYr4LkS9.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367361530007556/pu/vid/avc1/480x852/5oBiAU3EaXhvX0LI.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367361530007556/pu/vid/avc1/720x1280/uV05B5XsW1dm9Tkl.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367388843344342)) - It's like that famous winston churchill story: where a woman tells him if you were my husband i'd poison your tea and he replies if you were my wife i'd drink it. ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367393394135081)) - 3. Don't Insult The Person Insult The Insult Another way to crush an insult that can still make a crowd laugh and avoid making enemies. This can make someone look stupid for insulting you without them feeling personally attacked. <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367414546001920/pu/pl/DlIvd-zBpF2d8CqD.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367414546001920/pu/vid/avc1/320x568/DIRQu_5wzlktd5m2.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367414546001920/pu/vid/avc1/480x854/0ZTHeZCLPB-1COLF.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367440722604217)) - 4. Draw A Boundary Now if you don't want to sink to the other person's level and use an insult at all, another option you have is to “Draw A Boundary” For example: this woman tries to insult Jordan Peterson and listen to how he responds 👇🏻 <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367503783972870/pu/pl/kuiTHo8p-7P8VikJ.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367503783972870/pu/vid/avc1/320x568/243hZzXbag59ZYnm.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367503783972870/pu/vid/avc1/480x854/9KdOKlfYDkKyyUbB.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367568900591781)) - If you found the insult truly offensive you can also draw a boundary by calling out the insult and then shifting attention away from the person to someone else. This is infuriating to bullies because their behavior is often motivated by wanting attention. Example: Jonah hill👇🏻 <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367586277638144/pu/pl/bUO8Q8HA2IwTEy3z.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367586277638144/pu/vid/avc1/320x566/BKOgM0Fj3TpI-j-2.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367586277638144/pu/vid/avc1/406x720/8BxEK7TVCTG_rm9t.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367610520670558)) - 5. Someone Burns You You Burn Them Back in the same style if you aren't actually offended by the insult because you can often use a joking insult as a springboard for witty banter that makes the other person laugh. Great example: Tom Holland destroyed Falcon 👇🏻 <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367634780475392/pu/pl/NeorOTFKyYaprfKb.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367634780475392/pu/vid/avc1/320x568/gUzE2w_mBPRC_e04.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367634780475392/pu/vid/avc1/480x854/_rgOsivCJw_YGyax.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367658667085865)) - 6. Remain Unaffected Now not every insult needs an insulting comeback sometimes the most charismatic thing you can do is show that you're unaffected. So far this is incredibly easy to do and makes you look likable and confident with no risk of hurt feelings. ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367663851208879)) - One way you can do this is by answering rhetorical questions literally. So, someone is insulting you but you act like they're just asking you a genuine question. Here's a quick example from the avengers movie 👇🏻 <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367691990831104/pu/pl/F0qEpzg7fILBlgj9.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367691990831104/pu/vid/avc1/270x480/v8Vaq8krXyECwbkz.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367718393974862)) - This doesn't just work in fiction listen to Norm McDonald in this video. Notice how he's able to make everyone laugh and make himself look good without being rude to the interviewer who insulted him. <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367735972253700/pu/pl/FN48sUcSON0IUiaE.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367735972253700/pu/vid/avc1/582x270/8ZVD-4OKqCKM_cmC.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367735972253700/pu/vid/avc1/960x444/UHfuV3CiwVbaQ4Pl.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367754456601029)) - Another easy way to show you're unaffected by an insult if you can do it genuinely is to simply laugh at the insult. It shows your confidence hasn't been shaken at all by what they've said. <video controls><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367768847257602/pu/pl/n80gMCsjpdWcEPj8.m3u8?tag=12" type="application/x-mpegURL"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367768847257602/pu/vid/avc1/320x568/SN3vXINKjFmzJMtD.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1806367768847257602/pu/vid/avc1/480x854/x0G0651JmYesDTsB.mp4?tag=12" type="video/mp4">Your browser does not support the video tag.</video> ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367793224552794)) - Train your brain to break the limits of your mind! Take the Live Intentionally Challenge to: - Become the master of your mind - Practice critical thinking skills - Make more rational decisions Change your life here 👇 https://t.co/CwDGdOtg9S ([View Tweet](https://twitter.com/Inspirationwiz/status/1806367797272006957)) - You made it to the end! 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